Saturday, October 31, 2009
Friday, October 30, 2009
Saturday Nite Special #3 - anything goes!
Perfect.
This big bloggy world is one that has brought much joy to my life. Much creativity. I have loved "meeting" all of you because of blogging.
But there are times when I click through some blogs and am not proud of my reaction. First, it's awe and glee from a great reveal or project.
Then, maybe a bit of wishing.
Then, do I dare say it...
Resentment? Jealousy?
I'm not proud of that. Not one bit, but it's the truth.
Let me be clear here -- I big fat LOVE our home. I would not trade it for any other. Because it is truly where our heart is. I have put my blood, sweat and tears into this house. We have raised out kids here and have created so many wonderful traditions and memories.
I cannot stress enough how much I adore it.
So maybe it's not the homes I see that give me the tinges of jealousy. Maybe it's the time some have to dedicate to their homes. Maybe it's the money some can spend on their homes. Maybe it's the way they describe their lives that seem so...perfect?
Maybe you have felt that way about this blog at times? I know it's possible and probably true, but I hope it's a fleeting feeling.
Our home is not perfect. Our life is not perfect. And a couple weeks ago, I got a big (soft) slap upside the head from God when I found out something about a blogger I visit every so often. It's a little known fact about this person, and let's just say I felt like a big fat ARSE after finding out the information. ;)
It was a message in flashing red lights that no one's life is "perfect." It may appear to be, but it never is.
And really, who wants perfect? Seriously, perfect is BOR-RING. Just like a house, it's so much more interesting with imperfections...the squeak on the floor that drives you crazy every time you step on that spot. The crack in the wall no one sees but you (but it still drives you mad). The dings in the drywall and baseboards from kids living in a home. All of us have squeaks and cracks and dings in our lives that make them not perfect.
I will spare you the details of my life, but because of my experiences, HOME means so much more to me than a building or a place for stuff. Most of my childhood was filled with wonderful memories and traditions. I never noticed the dings in the drywall, the creaks in the floors. (And your kids won't either.)
Then in high school, a series of events occurred that changed my outlook on life. I didn't have a home for quite some time. I lived with my best friend and her family for a summer. When it was time to go back to college, my dorm room was my only home. And that Thanksgiving was spent in an old, gross motel room, just my Mom and me.
It was one of the lowest days of my life.
At that time, Sarah McLachlan's song "Elsewhere" brought me comfort. I listened to it constantly. Part of the chorus from that song that still sticks with me:
I believe this is heaven to no one else but me.
And I'll defend it as long as I can be...
That song still makes me cry. ;) I am thankful for every moment of my life, because it's brought me where I am today.
It's not about the stuff or the house being perfect. It's about it being a home, in the emotional sense. Because of my past, a place to put down roots and to create memories for our kids means so much to me. So if you ever take anything away from this blog, it's that your home should be YOUR haven. I don't care what it looks like. I don't care if it's your dream home. Make it your dream home with what you have.
Even if that is just baking cookies, carving a pumpkin and playing with your kids on this Halloween weekend. Remember even those that feel they have very little are envied by someone. Be proud and love what you have and make it what you love and are proud of, in whatever way you can.
I hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend with your family. Thanks for listening to my deep thoughts today. :)
A Last Trick and a Treat
Be sure to visit on Monday. I have a wonderful treat in store---an exciting giveaway!
You Know You're A Home Improvement Enthusiast When...
...you open your refrigerator and in the place where food should be you see paint brushes instead. (Wrapped in a Target bag no less.)
The above is a draft I wrote months ago while in the midst of the Kitchen Redesign, but never posted.
I was reminded of this draft yesterday when Karla at It's The Little Things That Make A House A Home posted a link to Beth's post, Top 10 List For Decor Bloggers: Must Read. You know you are a true decor blogger if...
I clicked over to see what Karla had found so amusing. Yes, definitely laugh worthy, particularly number 6! (You have contorted your body into crazy and dangerous positions and perhaps even perched on top of furniture in order to get a good picture of an inanimate object.)
At the end of the post Beth asks if she left anything out, what would you add to the list? Well encountering paint rollers and brushes in a place one usually finds food of course, that is what I would add.
What is in your home that you would need to add to such a list?
Kiss the Cook
Yikes, it's almost the end of October!!! OMG, where did the month go?
I finally made an easel card for Magnolia-licious Highlites. That's the challenge for October...to make an easel card.
I didn't make this monochromatic which was the optional challenge (sorry Suzanne), but rather I went with the challenge of Colour Create. Their Challenge 30 is ... ALL WHITE ... we'd like to see your makes with colour on the image only.
I thought this would be interesting to do, but it was sooo... hard not to even add a bit of colour by distressing the edges which I like to do. I had to rely on stitching, 3-d work and embelishments to make the white part noticeable.
A couple more challenges for this card:
At A Spoon Full of Sugar it's their Challenge 75. "For our Challenge this week we would like to see Kitchen/Cooking themed projects."
And this is also for Kellie's first Magnolia Down Under Store challenge. You can enter here. "Make a card or creation with at least ONE stamp from the Magnolia Yummy For Your Tummy Collection." Come on ladies, that's what you've all been doing anyway. Get your entries in by Friday, Nov. 13.
Enjoy your day and have a wonderful weekend!!!
Stamp: Magnolia Kitchen Tilda, sentiment from Bo Bunny What U Got Cookin' Clearly Stamps.
Tools: Martha Stewart border and corner punches Deco Fan.
Misc.: Vintage Attic Treasures pearls.
DP: Embosed vine cardstock from Michaels, everything else is plain white cardstock.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Frugal Friday~
Repurposing dresser drawers.
As I was driving down the street about a week ago, someone was throwing out what I could tell used to be a lovely old dresser. But it was trashed. And I mean trashed. Half of the drawers were missing and the two that were left looked a little worse for the wear.
"What a waste," I thought as I drove by.
Now this is a street that I drive down often. And a few days later, the dresser was still there. But this time I had a flash of inspiration. I pulled over and looked at the two remaining drawers. They were actually in pretty decent condition aside from the pulls which were falling off. So I pulled the drawers out...with a LOT of effort...and loaded them in my car. I have only finished one of them so far, but I couldn't wait to share.
Edited to add...here's what I ended up doing...
A dresser gets a little bling
I started running through the house wondering where I could find a good home for them.
One place was the headboard turned towel rack. But where to use the rest?!? And then it came to me. I ran for the glaze and drill and the rest is history.